Not everyone is born with an inbuilt sense of confidence. Even when you are so confident in yourself at first, sometimes your personal experiences of failure also wear it out. Therefore, gaining self-confidence is not a once-only practice. Instead, it requires regular practice during your lifetime. Check out the practical ways below to boost your belief and trust in yourself.
Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Believe it or not, the fact is that people tend to show off what they are good at and hide what makes them feel inferior to others. That is why you should stop looking at what people share on social media and comparing it to what you have. The comparison will result in your feeling of envy, which drives you to feel worse about yourself.
Stop comparing is hard, but not impossible. Whenever you go envious, think about your strengths and achievements. You should be proud of all the awesome stuff that you have done. If you can’t get out of this feeling, try unfollowing those who make you doubt yourself. Focusing on your own businesses will also take up space for other bad thoughts in your mind.
Improve Your Own Sets of Skills and Learn New Things
There is no better way to boost your confidence than upgrading yourself day by day. Sometimes, envy is also a good trigger to push you to become a better version of yourself. Keep digging into your majors, enhancing your soft skills, picking up new classes to gain more knowledge, and challenging yourself with new job opportunities. The more well-educated and experienced you are, the more confident you become.
Admittedly, easier said than done. In order to gain the above, set some practical goals first. They don’t need to be big or have great dreams. Take your dream apart and achieve small goals one by one just like you are completing a puzzle. Remember that Rome wasn’t built in a day and hard work will pay off.
Face Your Fears
Fears are the main cause of losing confidence. Everyone has their own fears and learning to face them is what we are all trying to do. Whether fears can be positive or negative depends on how you deal with them. Don’t avoid your fears. If you try to run away from them, they will always be there and prevent you from achieving what you want. Once you can pluck up your courage to fight your fears, you’ll find you are really moving forward.
Fears stem from your overthinking of the consequence or failure. Therefore, to deal with fears, stop thinking about the results of your actions. If you want to do something, just go for it. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes. Instead, take them as hands-on experience or new lessons learned to become successful next time. Try some positive self-talk whenever your fears come around. Keep talking to yourself that you can do it, you can handle it instead of saying that something is hard or impossible. Optimistic thinking has the power to turn your inner thoughts into actions. Trust me!
Having that said, don’t be so obsessed with confidence. I believe that everyone has trouble with confidence issues at one time or another. It’s ok to feel inferior, envious, scared, or lazy sometimes. Just don’t let your feelings affect your work, your social life, and your health.